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"How To Deal With Failure!"

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Failures are inevitable. Whether in starting a business, a new relationship, or even in life, failure will always find a way to greet you one way or another.

And old saying told us that you wouldn't judge successful people by their failure, but how they recover from it. Easier said than done? Definitely. However, as we grow older and more experienced, we will realize one thing: it's never our actions that dictate our future, but our reactions to anything happening in our lives.

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Embracing and reacting with failure is only one part of it, and here are some simple tips to help you react better to failure:

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1. Feel

Failures are often not too far apart from grieving, and we can learn how to cope with failure by learning the famous 5 stages of grief: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.

Give yourself a chance to feel it all, and if possible, talk to someone you trust. Set aside some time to grief, but remember, you are not your failure, and it's not a part of your identity.

Pain is temporary, glory is forever they say.

2. Learn from other's failures

You'll be surprised that by reading or hearing about other people's failures can help a lot. Learn from those that hit rock bottom and can rise back up again, and you can also learn from those who never recovered, what did they do wrong?

The most important thing is, by doing this, you'll know that you are not alone, and if someone can be successful after a bigger failure than yours, certainly you can also recover.

Many resources are available for this, for many types of failures, and you'll be surprised how easy you can relate to them.

3. Change your paradigm

Sometimes failure can be good, and as cliche as the old saying 'failure is just a delayed success' is, it can't be truer than that.

Remember, no matter how big your failure is, you are not a failure until you give up. Find something positive of your failure, what worked should be repeated, or improved in the next projects. For what didn't work, how will you do it next time something similar occurs?

Change your paradigm that what doesn't kill you, truly made you stronger and that failure certainly will lead you to better decisions in the future.

Failure is a good teacher, maybe the best there is, and it's time to start embracing it.

4. A New Beginning

Nothing is a better rebound than starting a new project. After you've had enough of your grieving time, start a new project, a new relationship, or whatever your failure is about.

Get started and let the new tasks and difficulties fill your head. If you feel it's too soon, find a new hobby, go on that holiday you always wanted, invent something.

Keep your mind moving forward, and you'll never know if it is indeed time for success.